I think of open-mindedness as more of acceptance. It's not the absence of an opinion. It's just the ability to hear the other side despite your own personal opinion and beliefs. I believe it's a way at neutrality.
I'd like to think of myself as fairly open-minded, but I have incredibly strong opinions on some subjects. On other subjects, I'm not so sure. Don't be fooled, though; even when I come across as strong, I do possess the ability to listen. And accept. Most of the time I end up sharing my opinions here, because I personally feel rejected for them elsewhere, and want people to know my viewpoint. Or because I am venting with a specific challenge statement to other people.
For example, "Go Ask Alice" was a deeply disturbing story. Not only did it make me upset for the girl, but assess my own life. It also helped me see the areas that I personally can cope with and others can't. I was hoping to point out what happens when you have a son or daughter that can't handle the pressure and being alone. I do my best to make it, as do others, but sometimes, we can't do it. I feel sad. And I feel I did my part by warning and thinking and reflecting to try so that won't happen again to another person.
Sorry to offend parents. I only meant to open your eyes. I'm not saying I'm great in that area, but that's why I know that I can speak for that. I see a need for it in my own life, and in others. I understand that we're so busy that we don't have time ... But all of this belongs in a different post.
But please, feel free to comment freely. I'm here to make friends and introduce the world to my philosophies. I'm not here to make enemies.
Friday, June 19, 2009
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